Safety isn't a feature. It's the foundation.
Boody is built so both people have more information, more control and clearer boundaries before they meet.
Everyone is verified
Hosts submit an ID document and a selfie, reviewed by our team before their profile goes live. Adults 21 and over only.
Consent on both sides
A request is only a request. Nothing opens up until the other person accepts, and either side can decline without a reason.
Private by default
Chat happens on Boody, so you never have to share your phone number, email or home address to arrange a meeting.
Clear expectations
Occasion, time, place and price are agreed before you meet. Boody is companionship — sexual services are not allowed.
Before you meet
- Keep the conversation on Boody until you have met in person.
- Choose a public place for a first meeting: a restaurant, bar, café or event.
- Tell a friend where you are going and when you expect to be back.
- Arrange your own transport, and keep your phone charged.
- You can leave at any moment. Not feeling right is reason enough.
What is not allowed
Boody is for companionship: dinner, events, travel, drinks and conversation. Sexual services, paid intimacy, harassment, pressure of any kind, discrimination and anyone under 21 are not allowed. Read the platform rules for the full list.
If something goes wrong
Tell us. You can report a person or a meeting at any time, and you can block someone from your chat. Reports are read by a person, not a bot, and reporting never notifies the other side.
In an emergency, contact the local emergency services first. In the Netherlands that is 112.
Wondering what verification actually checks? See verification explained.